Los Angeles: Selena Gomez recently opened up about her past relationships and admitted to making mistakes while reflecting on her emotional journey. Speaking on Jay Shetty’s podcast, the singer revealed that she was often reactive in her previous relationships, which led her to spend five years focusing on herself. Selena acknowledged that she was not in the right headspace to be with someone like her fiancé, Benny Blanco, back then.
Selena credited Benny for helping her overcome trust issues and making her feel secure. She shared how his patience and understanding made her feel heard, especially during moments of frustration. Benny’s supportive approach allowed her to shift her mindset and move away from the anger she had once felt in difficult situations.
Selena also expressed how Benny taught her to trust again, recalling how he reassured her with simple gestures that eased her anxieties. The couple, who announced their engagement in December 2024 after six months of dating, now seem ready to embrace the future with renewed confidence and trust.